be-musings

I said maybe I would blog about my weaknesses, so here goes. I'll keep the list short so that I don't get discouraged.
I can: focus on tasks rather than people; take criticism too much to heart; spend too much time second-guessing my actions or interpreting the actions of others; care too much about what people say or think.
The list may seem small, but when focused on it becomes weighty. How many times have you only seen these things in yourself...or whatever your list is...and let it affect you for weeks? We are really our own nemesis.
There is nothing wrong with knowing our shortcomings in order to have a realistic viewpoint of ourselves. It can help us to understand why we are experiencing some things in our lives, or how to avoid certain things. Some personal evaluation is important. The trouble begins when we don't stop there. We list our weaknesses without realizing the strengths associated.
I'm organized and have a strong work ethic, which is why tasks are important to me. I love people, which is why I frequently second-guess my actions or words. I hate conflict for the same reason.
Do you remember my post about the banker?
Let's turn this to you. Have you listed your strengths and weaknesses yet? Even just in your head? Think about the correlations between the two. You'll find them if you look.